Showing posts with label Friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friendship. Show all posts
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Remove
I used to think about stopping access my account in the social website that most of my friends there, just because of her.And I did. I did for a while. But suddenly I figured out that why I must stop go around with my many friends just because of only one person. Finally, I made a decision. I removed her out of my friendlist. And, FYI, I feel so RELEASED now!!! Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Friendship
Sometimes, this life is so frustrating that you don't dare to believe in anyone and anything you hear, you see, you smell. All that you want to do is praying. I said praying.
You hadsome close friends. Had. And then, they're gone, just like they didn't exist in the real wide world. You may meet them in the street, but both of you try to ignore each other like a kind of dangerous disease. Well, I used to experience that. I used to feel depressed and tried my best to find the solution. And, it didn't work. One of my friend said that "Friendship is like love, when you find you don't love them anymore, then you will say goodbye." But another said, "That's completely a wrong definition. You cannot compare love and friendship. Love may not last but friendship does." I don't know which one is right. However, I finally got a conclusion for this. Friendship does last if it is true friendship.
I have some friends who I have know for years. Say, it is more than 20 years now. No matter how much we complain, we shout, we misunderstand, or even we promise not to see each other again. We still meet. Even I said I'm not going to meet her since she was not determined in her relationship and always complained about her lot. And I am fed up with it. But I know, we still meet someday. Why? From the very bottom of this issue, there is one reason, belief. I believe she will be there whenever I need, I believe she will give out her hand to help me whenever I call, and I'm sure that I will do the same thing to her. Yes, true friendship needs belief.
So, talk about those try-to-ignore friends above. Clearly, we don't have belief in each other. Then this friendship will end sooner or later. That's why I should not regret for it anymore.
You hadsome close friends. Had. And then, they're gone, just like they didn't exist in the real wide world. You may meet them in the street, but both of you try to ignore each other like a kind of dangerous disease. Well, I used to experience that. I used to feel depressed and tried my best to find the solution. And, it didn't work. One of my friend said that "Friendship is like love, when you find you don't love them anymore, then you will say goodbye." But another said, "That's completely a wrong definition. You cannot compare love and friendship. Love may not last but friendship does." I don't know which one is right. However, I finally got a conclusion for this. Friendship does last if it is true friendship.
I have some friends who I have know for years. Say, it is more than 20 years now. No matter how much we complain, we shout, we misunderstand, or even we promise not to see each other again. We still meet. Even I said I'm not going to meet her since she was not determined in her relationship and always complained about her lot. And I am fed up with it. But I know, we still meet someday. Why? From the very bottom of this issue, there is one reason, belief. I believe she will be there whenever I need, I believe she will give out her hand to help me whenever I call, and I'm sure that I will do the same thing to her. Yes, true friendship needs belief.
So, talk about those try-to-ignore friends above. Clearly, we don't have belief in each other. Then this friendship will end sooner or later. That's why I should not regret for it anymore.
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