Friendship

Sometimes, this life is so frustrating that you don't dare to believe in anyone and anything you hear, you see, you smell. All that you want to do is praying. I said praying.

You hadsome close friends. Had. And then, they're gone, just like they didn't exist in the real wide world. You may meet them in the street, but both of you try to ignore each other like a kind of dangerous disease. Well, I used to experience that. I used to feel depressed and tried my best to find the solution. And, it didn't work. One of my friend said that "Friendship is like love, when you find you don't love them anymore, then you will say goodbye." But another said, "That's completely a wrong definition. You cannot compare love and friendship. Love may not last but friendship does." I don't know which one is right. However, I finally got a conclusion for this. Friendship does last if it is true friendship.

I have some friends who I have know for years. Say, it is more than 20 years now. No matter how much we complain, we shout, we misunderstand, or even we promise not to see each other again. We still meet. Even I said I'm not going to meet her since she was not determined in her relationship and always complained about her lot. And I am fed up with it. But I know, we still meet someday. Why? From the very bottom of this issue, there is one reason, belief. I believe she will be there whenever I need, I believe she will give out her hand to help me whenever I call, and I'm sure that I will do the same thing to her. Yes, true friendship needs belief.

So, talk about those try-to-ignore friends above. Clearly, we don't have belief in each other. Then this friendship will end sooner or later. That's why I should not regret for it anymore.

Thought of the day

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Can't live without

There are some things that you cannot live without. And, there are those seem to be normal to this person but important to others. Well, our needs are diversified, right? And me is not exceptional. Following are some things that I cannot live without, least to most respectively:

1. Lotion: my skin is naturally dry. And this dryness makes my legs look like fishskin. So terrible, huh? How could I ever dare to wear shorts or dresses as other girls do? No matter how much fruitjuice and water I have, it was still no change or just a little bit. Then, the doctor advised me to use lotion as a very good treatment for my skin. Now I can make a "phew!" and confidently engjoy the beauty of feminine.

2. Cellphone: it was not the need-to-have list until I got a smartphone. It replaces my iPod, my Schedule, my Contact book, my camera and sometimes, my lappy. Life is more comfortable when all you need to take for a trip is just a smartphone.

3. Books: Ah, this is very important to me, really important. I love reading, reading any kind of books. However, my favorite kind is chick-lit. Oh, I love it. Just give me any book in my spare time, I promise to keep quiet and not to request anything else.

4. F&F: Family and Friends, they are someones who encourage you, support you and make you feel better whenever you're down. Then, how can you live without 'em?

5. HIM: Believe to capital H-I-M, hey...hey...hey...He has been my priority for almost 3 years. Destiny is a miracle. It happens when you're unexpected. We got to know each other, we got married and now we are going to be mum and dad. That's life.

Here and there

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Return the kiss

I love this book as well as the author. She is the one who has dreams and always find her ways to achieve those. I still remember a sentence she wrote: "If you know how to work professionally and enthusiastically, God never betray your effort!".

In this age - not too old but completely not young at all - me and one of my girl friends ought to have catched our dreams or at least known what our dreams were. But we still haven't. However, in a very optimistic way, we know that we love experiencing which means we love travelling, experiencing new culture, new lifestyle and new people. I wonder if it is considered as a dream. Oh it is. Why? The author of this book also had the same dream as we have. And, she did try her very best to achieve that, by learning, attending a competition, working...

Then there is nothing wrong with ours, buddy. We also try our best in what we're doing eh...

P.S: Regretting...well...it's not bad but keep regretting is not a good habit huh.